(Warning! this post is super long and is about the last days in Forecariah, Affectation in Conakry, and the first few days at site. Save this for a day when you're really bored and don't mind reading lots of really poor writing!)
And so the adventure begins! Yesterday (Monday), around 11am, I waved goodbye to Ben and Alison, the last volunteers I will see for at least a month, maybe even two or three. You read about volunteers wanting to run after the Peace Corps truck, yelling “Wait! I’m not ready!” In no way was that the case for me; I’ve been ready for this moment for what seems like years. Although my French isn’t quite where I’d like it to be, and my Susu, Yalunke, and Malinke are virtually non-existant, the language barrier does not scare me – hell, I’ve been living lost in translation for three months already, haven’t I? And the prospect of teaching does not scare me, either; the three weeks of practice school took care of that. The only other factor that seems like it may play a role in the “Wait, come back!” scenario must be loneliness. This is something one must take into great consideration even when applying to the Peace Corps. All of us know how lonely this life will be, but I’ve decided to take these last few months to focus on the positive aspects of this loneliness, on how productive I can be over the course of the next two years, of how much I can improve myself.
No, I wasn’t afraid when that truck pulled away, but I won’t deny that the farewell was indeed bittersweet. To reflect on this, I’m going to flash back to my last few days in Forecariah and the ensuing weekend spent in Conakry for affectation.
Going back to Tuesday of last week, I find myself returning to the Doumbwaya’s house for the last time. On this night, the quarter is blessed with electricity, which means the small living room is filled with thirty people, all trying to get a view of the Susu movie playing on a television akin to the I stayed up late watching in my college dorm room. The room is filled with the smell of people have put in an honest day’s work every day of their life, but have never stopped to put on deodorant on any one of those days. Cigarette smoke wafts through the air as babies cry and cell phones ring.
I could easily walk right through this crowd and go straight to my room, as I do most other nights, but on this night I took my seat right next to Nba, the pride in his eyes telling me I’d made the right move. Never mind the fact that I couldn’t understand a moment of the Susu film, the important thing was that I was there, sharing it with them.
As we sat there, I couldn’t help but worry about what I’d wear at the closing ceremony the next morning (you know, because I’m such a diva!). The previous week, Nba came into my room accompanied by the tailor to take my measurements for what they told me would be a boubou to wear to the final ceremony. Trusting this outfit would be ready in time, I’d already packed up the rest of my clothes and sent them off in one of the Peace Corps trucks. At this point, the only clothes I had to wear were the shorts and t-shirt I was currently sporting. As much as I like shorts and t-shirts, this outfit hardly seemed appropriate for giving my farewell speech the next day.
Dieu merci, the tailor arrived Chez Doumbwaya at about 10:15 pm, just as I was about to give up hope and go to bed. Upon seeing my new boubou, I couldn’t help but fall in love with it! It was classy, yet, to steal a line from America’s favorite family restaurant, unrefined. Wearing the boubou made me feel about a foot taller and as though I could carry myself as a true Guinean. The film crowd proved an admirable audience for my fashion show as I paraded about in my new attire, clapping and hooting as I stopped to do a turn here, a little dance step there. Suffice to say, everyone was happy and, boubou in tow, I was able to sleep easy.
Wednesday morning, I awoke with a good three hours to spare before the ceremony began. After my final bucket bath in Forecariah, I donned my new outfit and sat down to do some writing. On my way home the day before, I had stopped to take some photos of my favorite café and of Aissatou, the 12 year old girl who runs the place with her father. As I snapped the photos, a man came up and introduced himself as Makslope, a travelling singer/dancer from Liberia who was in Forecariah to perform at the end of Ramadan. He explained that, being from Liberia, a country colonized by America, he was also American and he and I were, in fact, brothers. According to him, this meant we must exchange gifts so as to always remember one another. Although I agreed, saying I’d bring his present the next day, I thought he was just trying to get me to give him money from my bottomless American pocket. Naturally, I was a surprised when he immediately changed the direction of the conversation and asked that I take a picture of him jumping over the motorcycle which had been standing next to us. I obliged and wound up with a pretty decent souvenir of Makslope, which he then explained was his gift to me. As we parted for the evening, he expressed his regret in my impending departure, wishing that we had more time to discuss our ideas, to talk about changes that needed to be made in the world.
This brings me back to Wednesday morning, where I sat at my desk writing – my gift to Makslope. I wrote three pages on the status of women in West Africa, about how few girls make it to high school and even fewer to university. I wrote about the people who ask me every day for money and the people who ask how to become rich like me and why Americans are so much better off than Guineans. While there are many answers to these questions (one may even wish to argue that, although Americans have more money, they aren’t necessarily happier than Guineans..), I chose to address the issue of women in society. Imagine trying to tackle some sort of task, but only being able to use half of your intellect to do so – you would never finish. Isn’t a society where only half of the population is contributing basically the same thing?
Please don’t think I’m trying to cast a negative shadow on the men of Guinea. Although, at first glance, this may seem to be a society driven by male chauvinists, the women are just as much to blame, that is to say if anybody is really “to blame”. Generation after generation of this lifestyle has made it the cultural norm – one doesn’t see the women fighting or complaining about the fact that they must stay home from school to do the cooking and cleaning while the boys go to class and get their education. In order for a real change to occur, there has to be some sort of great cultural shift, and such was my charge to Makslope. I explained that, as a travelling performer, he had the opportunity to reach the right audiences and to spread the right messages. This may not be the sort of gift he was hoping for, but I was happy with it, and he we very happy when I handed it to him as we drove off, telling me he loved me and he would never forget me. That said, everything I wrote could be totally wrong and I really hope that, 10 years from now, I don’t find out I was the catalyst to the greatest cultural meltdown in West Africa!
With my writing finished, I went outside to meet my homonym, the person for whom I was given the name Ablo. It turns out he’s an old neighbor of the Doumbwayas who is now studying at the university in Conakry. I took this as a compliment because it meant I’d been named after one of the smartest people they knew. To my surprise, he presented me with yet another outfit – a complet from the Forest Region. After taking several pictures with him, the Doumbwayas, and my friend Sekouba, we set off for the Maison de la Jeunesse, where the farewell ceremony was to be held.
We all sat – wait, did I say sat? what I meant to say was we all melted in the Maison for the next two hours awaiting the Peace Corps director from Conakry and the local dignitaries. Perhaps melted is a strong word, but I’m sure we all lost five or ten pounds as we sat in what amounted to a 95 degree barn, dressed to the 9’s in our boubous, complets, and fancy African hats. In spite of the heat, everyone looked magnificent – Joe looked ready to take over the world in his tall maroon outfit and matching mouchoir; John’s family had set him up with a fancy gold lace-lined outfit, complete with close-toed Guinean sandals; Tiffany, in her indigo complet from the Fouta Region, had a wonderful radiance about her.
At long last, the country director arrived and we were able to get started. Apparently, on their way out of Conakry, a riot had erupted, resulting in police-fired teargas. Needless to say, the Peace Corps truck was forced to turn around and take a different route.
As a whole, this ceremony was not terribly different from the opening ceremony, save for a few things:
1) This time, PCT’s gave 4 speeches, instead of just the one given in French by Valentin at the opening ceremony. Rachel gave the Pular speech, Tiffany the Susu speech, Carolina the Malinke speech, and I ended it with the French speech.
2) Although the DJ was back, this time he wasn’t playing the same lively dance music. Rather, he was playing much more subdued, almost mournful, Muslim music. I imagine this was die to the ceremony falling during Ramadan, which also probably explains why there wasn’t any dancing this time.
3) There was no feast following the ceremony, which was most definitely due to Ramadan and the associated fasting.
I was really excited about giving the speech. Although I’d like to say people voted for me to give it, that would be far from the truth. Basically, I wanted to give it and nobody else did, so it was mine. It probably sounds silly that this would be something I’d want so badly, but I’ve never really given a speech before. Sure, I’ve played my violin and viola in front of large audiences before, and I’ve read at church and things like that, but I’d never really had the chance to present my own thoughts and words to a group like this. With Valentin’s help I put together my speech, of which I’d hoped to post a video. Unfortunately, you can’t really hear anything I’m saying in the video because the sound system left a bit to be desired. For those of you who are interested, here’s the speech I gave (it’s short and simple, but I like to think it’s also kind of sweet :) ):
De la part de tous les stagiaires, je voudrais vous remercier pour votre hospitalite, votre gentillesse, et votre patience. Quand nous sommes arrives ici en Juillet, il y avait vingt-cinq stagiaire. Aujourd’hui, nous partons avec le meme groupe de vingt-cinq stagiaires. Ceci est, sans doutes, grace a votre hospitalite et votre gentillesse.
Pendant ces trois mois, vous nous avez appris comment vivre comme les Guineens. Vous nous avez aide apprendre le francais. Vous nous avez prepare les plats Guineens, comme le riz et sauce, et vous nous avez meme montre comment s’habiller comme les Guineens, par exemple comment nous sommes habille aujourd’hui.
Ce que vous nous avez appris sera, sans doutes, indisposable pendant les deux prochaines annees. Par exemple, pour trois semaines, nous avons enseignes vos enfants, mais en realite, en enseignant nous avons appris comment devenir de meilleurs professeurs.
Tous les moments n’etaient pas faciles, mais vous nous avez aide a surmonter les moments difficiles comme nous etions malades ou comme nos familles nous manqeouns.
Je me souvendrai toujours de mes trois mois passé a Forecariah. Cette ville est benie d’une beaute naturelle exemple par ses montagnes ou sa riviere. J’espere que le Corps de la Paix continue a envoyer de future generation de volontaires pourqu’ils puissant beneficier de cette ville comme nous l’avons puis.
Maintenant que nous allons franchir un nouveau palier en quittant Forecariah nous nous sentions prêt, grace a vous, de commencer notre aventure en Guinee pour les deux prochaines annees. Merci encore pour tout que vous avez fait et nous esperons vous revoir dans le futur. Merci a touse.
Or, in English:
On behalf of all the trainees, I would like to thank you for your hospitality, your kindness, and your patience. When we arrived here in July, there were 25 trainees. Today, we leave with that same group of 25 trainees. This is, without doubt, thanks to your hospitality and your kindness.
During these three months, you have taught us how to live like Guineans. You helped us learn French; you cooked us Guinean food, like the rice and sauce; and you showed us how to dress like Guineans, for example, how we’re dressed today.
That which you taught us will be, without doubt, indispensible during the next two years. For example, for three weeks we taught your children, but in reality, in teaching we were learning to become better teachers.
All the moments were not easy, but you helped us to overcome those difficult times when we were sick or when we missed our families.
I will always remember my three months spent in Forecariah. This town is blessed with a natural beauty exemplified by its mountains and its river. I hope that the Peace Corps will continue to send future generations of volunteers here so they can benefit from this town the way we were able to.
Now that we are going to cross over to a new stage in leaving Forecariah, we will be ready, thanks to you, to begin our adventure in Guinea for the next two years. Thanks again for all that you did and we hope to see you again in the future! Thank you, everyone.
Surely you can imagine everyone standing up, clapping before I had even finished, the men giving each other high-fives, the women in tears of joy and sadness. Well, that’s how I like to remember it.. although that really wasn’t the case, because, due to the sound system and my inability to hold the microphone the perfect distance from my mouth, I don’t think anyone understood a word I said. Oh well – at least they didn’t boo!
And for all those people in Forecariah right now, sipping your cappuccinos as you browse my blog at the internet café on Main Street, or to my neighbors, the Toures, who are probably reading this via wifi on their laptop as they watch the Georgia Tech football team pummel Georgia on their wall-mounted flat screen – now you finally know what I was trying to say that day as I gave my speech at the closing ceremony!
That, of course, was just a joke. Everyone knows Guineans really don’t care much for American football.
With the speech and ceremony over, it was finally time to say goodbye to our families. Just how do you say goodbye to the people who raised you from a drooling toddler, through that awkward teenage phase, and into full-grown, Guinean adults? Honestly, I still don’t have the answer. I would have liked to have given them all hugs, but I’d read somewhere that Africans don’t give hugs at departures – that means you won’t be coming back.
Things were easy enough with Nga – she lagged behind and just sat on the ground in the shade; she had been fairly sick the last few days (although I later heard she had gone through the same symptoms with the three previous trainees). I walked over, took her hand, and thanked her many times in Susu. I finished with my favorite Susu phrase, “n bara sewa,” which means, “I’m happy,” smiled, and returned to the others.
My heart was at once broken and warmed when I walked back and saw Nba close to tears. It was obvious they didn’t know how to say goodbye, either. It’s so strange that, three months ago, I was experiencing some of the unhappiest moments of my life, most of which I attributed to this family, but there I was at the end of training, a changed person, at one of the happiest moments of my life, and it was all thanks to these same people. It’s safe to say I’ve developed an admiration and love for this family as though I really was one of their own, and I will never forget it.
Not knowing what to say and not wanting to prolong the farewell, I thanked them again, told them I would miss them but would return again someday, shook hands, and left. When I turned back around a few seconds later, they had already disappeared through the crowd of well-wishing families and other trainees. In a way, this farewell was almost harder on me than when I left my real family behind at Bluegrass Airport in July; I managed not to cry either time (hey, I’m a man. I save my crying for those first nights alone in a foreign country for two years, or when I’m curled up on the floor vomiting with malaria…), but this time around I couldn’t deny the fact that I may never see the Doumbwayas again.
No matter what happens, I know my mom, Tom, Erin, and Hilary will always be there; I know, God willing, that I’ll see them many, many more times over the years. The Doumbwayas, though – that’s a different matter. Peace Corps could get evacuated again or I could get sick and sent home, never to see them again. Another possibility is that one of them could get sick or hurt – Mama and Torres are still at ages where they are very vulnerable to diseases like malaria and pneumonia. Heck, two days before we left, a boy from the high school was struck by a car and killed in the market just up the street. I know this all sounds morbid, pessimistic, and maybe just a little scary, but now you also have a better idea of what it’s like to say goodbye to people you love in Africa.
(And as for our safety here, we’re always the first ones pulled off the street by a helpful petit when an approaching vehicle is still 100m distant)
To wrap up on the Doumbwayas, I’ll miss them while I’m here at site, but I know I haven’t heard the last of them, either. Nba called me three days in a row in Conakry, just to check up on me, to say hi, just like a parent should. :)
I often think back to the summer before my senior year of high school, probably one of the greatest summers ever. It started with a week of all-male mock legislation at the American Legion run Boys’ State. Okay, so it doesn’t sound great, but my friends and I had a blast getting under the skin of the super serious, I-want-to-win-the-scholarship-to-Boys’-Nation kids by trying to enact laws like the requirement to rotate your tires every day – boy, did that one grind some gears! Then, I got to spend a month at the Governor’s School for the Arts, where I played my viola all day with some great musicians and spent the rest of the time living, learning, and creating with other, like-minded artists – not a bad way to spend a month, no matter how old you are. One of my fondest memories of that summer, though, comes from the two week backpacking trip in the southern Rockies with my scout troop right after the arts school finished.
On this particular day we had a 12-mile hike, up and down several ridges, ending in what was affectionately known as “the seven switchbacks from Hell”. The campsite for the night was Apache Springs, and we soon found out that up by the springs we could set up an authentic Indian sweat lodge. After building a giant fire and heating up the rocks, we stripped down to our underwear and crawled through the tiny opening into the animal hide covered dome. Pouring water over the hot rocks to make it steam and feel even hotter, we timed ourselves to see how long we could last, how tough we all were. About twenty minutes later, the five of us burst out of the lodge, dumping buckets of ice cold spring water over our heads. It was, easily, the most refreshing moment of my life.
Arriving back in Conakry was kind of like that; except, instead of twenty minutes, we were in that sweat lodge for two months. Stepping through that door to the volunteer house was such a wonderful sensation, and I still can’t really put my finger on why.
My first explanation would be immediate access to air conditioning, television, and the internet, but that wasn’t it. I’m not a big TV junkie and I’ve got a bunch of shows and movies on my iPod anyways; air conditioning is nice, but after a few months you get used to the sweating and stickiness; and the internet – well, I don’t really get that many e-mails anymore and I only have enough good material to be able to post on this sucker every once a month or so, anyway.
No, that great feeling when I crossed the threshold was not a result of material products. I guess it must have has something to do with a freedom associated with the visit. The last time we visited the Peace Corps compound in Conakry was during our first few days in the country, when PCV’s and staff held our hands everywhere we went. Then, over the next eleven weeks in Forecariah, we always had classes to attend, classes to teach, and homework to do or grade. When we had spare time, we had to report our every move to our families. For the first time in almost three months, we were able to do what we wanted, when we wanted, without the stress of languages, passing the cross-culture exam, or simply fretting over what our families would feed us next.
For me, getting to spend time with the other G-16ers without those stresses was like getting to know them all over again, in a good way. Towards the end of our time in Forecariah, I was getting tired of always hanging out in the same places, for the same limited periods of time, always talking about the classes of that day or the next. For once, we were able to shed those restrictive shackles and just be ourselves. I got chances to really get to know some people I really hadn’t “met” during training, and the friendships I already had only became stronger.
On Thursday morning, we piled into the Peace Corps bus and made our way en ville to get some money from the bank and subsequently spend it all, gorging ourselves on “American” food. Peace Corps had already deposited our move-in allowance and the next three months’ living allowance, resulting in a whopping 4.3 million francs; we’d finally struck it rich! I withdrew three million, not sure of the next time I’d be in Conakry and wanting to make sure I had enough for the next few months. Since Guineans don’t have any bills larger than ten thousand francs, this resulted in quite a few bills, enough to need a backpack, but not so many that I wasn’t able to refute the lyrics of the great V.I.C./Soulja Boy song “Get Silly”, where they say “but forget a rubber band, cuz you can’t put a rubber band around a milli-ann!” Sorry Soulja Boy, but you CAN put a rubber band around a milli-ann!
With our money stowed safely away in our bags, a group of us made our way over to La Gondole, where I filled up on a large, fried egg (what the..?) pizza and a chocolate-banana milkshake. While it wasn’t a bad lunch, I’m not sure it was worth the 60 mille I had to fork over at the end. The cravings for American food, while they’re certainly still there, aren’t at the forefront of my mind anymore, which I suppose is actually quite a good thing, n’est-ce pas?
After leaving the restaurant, the plan was to go to the Leb store (run by Lebanese people) to pick up food and cooking supplies to take to site. The local authorities, however, had a different plan for us. When we got to the corner where we were going to turn towards the store, a police officer stepped in my path and saluted me. Confused, I half-saluted him and said “bonjour” as I tried to move around him. Staring me down with a look of incredulity, he stuck his arm out across my chest and demanded everyone’s documents. We obliged, passing over our Peace Corps ID cards and our cartes d’experts – our official Guinean documentation of our work here in the country. He claimed this wasn’t good enough, asking why we weren’t giving him our passports. We explained that our passports were held in the safe at the Peace Corps compound, resulting in him marching of down the street, taking our IDs with him and barking for us to follow.
I’m sure everybody has seen the movie or read the book where the unsuspecting foreigner falls prey to the crooked cop and winds up locked away in a dark prison cell for years, forgotten. Well, I wasn’t about to be that guy! I took about ten stops before I stopped, letting the police officer disappear into the crowd of people down the street; it would be much easier to get myself a new Peace Corps ID than get myself out of the back of some locked, windowless van… but just then our hero arrived in the form of Sam, the chief of the Peace Corps motor pool. We explained the problem and he immediately chased down the police officer, eventually returning with our IDs and an explanation. Apparently, security has been raised in Conakry such that all foreigners must now constantly prove they have not illegally entered the country. Why a bunch of Americans would try to sneak into Guinea, I don’t know.
The rest of the day passed uneventfully – olive oil, baking soda, and popcorn kernels were bought at the Leb store, then the afternoon was spent watching “Out of Africa” with Conor, Luke and Tiffany. The movie was alright, but I won’t be in a hurry to watch it again; it was quite slow-moving, and if I really want to re-watch a Robert Redford movie, it would probably be “The Sting.”
Friday – the day to which we’d all been looking forward for months, the day we could finally shed that nasty title of “trainee” and toast one another as “volunteers”! The swearing-in ceremony was held at the U.S. embassy, and oh! how good it felt to be back on U.S. soil, in a sense. The swearing-in ceremony was similar to the farewell ceremony in that four volunteers gave speeches, along with the some speeches by the Peace Corps administration. It differed in the fact that some more important Guinean officials spoke, the ambassador spoke, and, of course, at the end of THIS ceremony, we were all volunteers.
Understandably, we were all a bit disappointed when we’d been told there would be no food following the ceremony – it would be rude to eat in front of the fasting Guineans. So, you can imagine our delight when the last speech ended and we turned around to find tables of delicious finger foods and pastries. Not only were we on American soil, but we were eating bologna, mini-pizzas, cake, and drinking soda – can you get any more patriotic than that?
Dan, the Peace Corps country director, and his wife, Julia, had planned a pool party and barbeque for us at their house starting at four. Seeing as we had a few hours between our time at the embassy and the impending bash, we couldn’t think of a better way to get ready than with a few cold beverages, so a group of us headed down to the beach bar, my first visit since July. Showing up to the beach on a Friday (the Muslim holy day) during Ramadan was like landing on the moon – it was completely empty. Well, empty of people; there was still plenty of trash to go around! Needless to say, we had the bar to ourselves.
A few beverages later, the time was right to dive into the pool party. had one thing on my mind – swimming in that cool, clear water!
No, I wasn’t afraid when that truck pulled away, but I won’t deny that the farewell was indeed bittersweet. To reflect on this, I’m going to flash back to my last few days in Forecariah and the ensuing weekend spent in Conakry for affectation.
Going back to Tuesday of last week, I find myself returning to the Doumbwaya’s house for the last time. On this night, the quarter is blessed with electricity, which means the small living room is filled with thirty people, all trying to get a view of the Susu movie playing on a television akin to the I stayed up late watching in my college dorm room. The room is filled with the smell of people have put in an honest day’s work every day of their life, but have never stopped to put on deodorant on any one of those days. Cigarette smoke wafts through the air as babies cry and cell phones ring.
I could easily walk right through this crowd and go straight to my room, as I do most other nights, but on this night I took my seat right next to Nba, the pride in his eyes telling me I’d made the right move. Never mind the fact that I couldn’t understand a moment of the Susu film, the important thing was that I was there, sharing it with them.
As we sat there, I couldn’t help but worry about what I’d wear at the closing ceremony the next morning (you know, because I’m such a diva!). The previous week, Nba came into my room accompanied by the tailor to take my measurements for what they told me would be a boubou to wear to the final ceremony. Trusting this outfit would be ready in time, I’d already packed up the rest of my clothes and sent them off in one of the Peace Corps trucks. At this point, the only clothes I had to wear were the shorts and t-shirt I was currently sporting. As much as I like shorts and t-shirts, this outfit hardly seemed appropriate for giving my farewell speech the next day.
Dieu merci, the tailor arrived Chez Doumbwaya at about 10:15 pm, just as I was about to give up hope and go to bed. Upon seeing my new boubou, I couldn’t help but fall in love with it! It was classy, yet, to steal a line from America’s favorite family restaurant, unrefined. Wearing the boubou made me feel about a foot taller and as though I could carry myself as a true Guinean. The film crowd proved an admirable audience for my fashion show as I paraded about in my new attire, clapping and hooting as I stopped to do a turn here, a little dance step there. Suffice to say, everyone was happy and, boubou in tow, I was able to sleep easy.
Wednesday morning, I awoke with a good three hours to spare before the ceremony began. After my final bucket bath in Forecariah, I donned my new outfit and sat down to do some writing. On my way home the day before, I had stopped to take some photos of my favorite café and of Aissatou, the 12 year old girl who runs the place with her father. As I snapped the photos, a man came up and introduced himself as Makslope, a travelling singer/dancer from Liberia who was in Forecariah to perform at the end of Ramadan. He explained that, being from Liberia, a country colonized by America, he was also American and he and I were, in fact, brothers. According to him, this meant we must exchange gifts so as to always remember one another. Although I agreed, saying I’d bring his present the next day, I thought he was just trying to get me to give him money from my bottomless American pocket. Naturally, I was a surprised when he immediately changed the direction of the conversation and asked that I take a picture of him jumping over the motorcycle which had been standing next to us. I obliged and wound up with a pretty decent souvenir of Makslope, which he then explained was his gift to me. As we parted for the evening, he expressed his regret in my impending departure, wishing that we had more time to discuss our ideas, to talk about changes that needed to be made in the world.
This brings me back to Wednesday morning, where I sat at my desk writing – my gift to Makslope. I wrote three pages on the status of women in West Africa, about how few girls make it to high school and even fewer to university. I wrote about the people who ask me every day for money and the people who ask how to become rich like me and why Americans are so much better off than Guineans. While there are many answers to these questions (one may even wish to argue that, although Americans have more money, they aren’t necessarily happier than Guineans..), I chose to address the issue of women in society. Imagine trying to tackle some sort of task, but only being able to use half of your intellect to do so – you would never finish. Isn’t a society where only half of the population is contributing basically the same thing?
Please don’t think I’m trying to cast a negative shadow on the men of Guinea. Although, at first glance, this may seem to be a society driven by male chauvinists, the women are just as much to blame, that is to say if anybody is really “to blame”. Generation after generation of this lifestyle has made it the cultural norm – one doesn’t see the women fighting or complaining about the fact that they must stay home from school to do the cooking and cleaning while the boys go to class and get their education. In order for a real change to occur, there has to be some sort of great cultural shift, and such was my charge to Makslope. I explained that, as a travelling performer, he had the opportunity to reach the right audiences and to spread the right messages. This may not be the sort of gift he was hoping for, but I was happy with it, and he we very happy when I handed it to him as we drove off, telling me he loved me and he would never forget me. That said, everything I wrote could be totally wrong and I really hope that, 10 years from now, I don’t find out I was the catalyst to the greatest cultural meltdown in West Africa!
With my writing finished, I went outside to meet my homonym, the person for whom I was given the name Ablo. It turns out he’s an old neighbor of the Doumbwayas who is now studying at the university in Conakry. I took this as a compliment because it meant I’d been named after one of the smartest people they knew. To my surprise, he presented me with yet another outfit – a complet from the Forest Region. After taking several pictures with him, the Doumbwayas, and my friend Sekouba, we set off for the Maison de la Jeunesse, where the farewell ceremony was to be held.
We all sat – wait, did I say sat? what I meant to say was we all melted in the Maison for the next two hours awaiting the Peace Corps director from Conakry and the local dignitaries. Perhaps melted is a strong word, but I’m sure we all lost five or ten pounds as we sat in what amounted to a 95 degree barn, dressed to the 9’s in our boubous, complets, and fancy African hats. In spite of the heat, everyone looked magnificent – Joe looked ready to take over the world in his tall maroon outfit and matching mouchoir; John’s family had set him up with a fancy gold lace-lined outfit, complete with close-toed Guinean sandals; Tiffany, in her indigo complet from the Fouta Region, had a wonderful radiance about her.
At long last, the country director arrived and we were able to get started. Apparently, on their way out of Conakry, a riot had erupted, resulting in police-fired teargas. Needless to say, the Peace Corps truck was forced to turn around and take a different route.
As a whole, this ceremony was not terribly different from the opening ceremony, save for a few things:
1) This time, PCT’s gave 4 speeches, instead of just the one given in French by Valentin at the opening ceremony. Rachel gave the Pular speech, Tiffany the Susu speech, Carolina the Malinke speech, and I ended it with the French speech.
2) Although the DJ was back, this time he wasn’t playing the same lively dance music. Rather, he was playing much more subdued, almost mournful, Muslim music. I imagine this was die to the ceremony falling during Ramadan, which also probably explains why there wasn’t any dancing this time.
3) There was no feast following the ceremony, which was most definitely due to Ramadan and the associated fasting.
I was really excited about giving the speech. Although I’d like to say people voted for me to give it, that would be far from the truth. Basically, I wanted to give it and nobody else did, so it was mine. It probably sounds silly that this would be something I’d want so badly, but I’ve never really given a speech before. Sure, I’ve played my violin and viola in front of large audiences before, and I’ve read at church and things like that, but I’d never really had the chance to present my own thoughts and words to a group like this. With Valentin’s help I put together my speech, of which I’d hoped to post a video. Unfortunately, you can’t really hear anything I’m saying in the video because the sound system left a bit to be desired. For those of you who are interested, here’s the speech I gave (it’s short and simple, but I like to think it’s also kind of sweet :) ):
De la part de tous les stagiaires, je voudrais vous remercier pour votre hospitalite, votre gentillesse, et votre patience. Quand nous sommes arrives ici en Juillet, il y avait vingt-cinq stagiaire. Aujourd’hui, nous partons avec le meme groupe de vingt-cinq stagiaires. Ceci est, sans doutes, grace a votre hospitalite et votre gentillesse.
Pendant ces trois mois, vous nous avez appris comment vivre comme les Guineens. Vous nous avez aide apprendre le francais. Vous nous avez prepare les plats Guineens, comme le riz et sauce, et vous nous avez meme montre comment s’habiller comme les Guineens, par exemple comment nous sommes habille aujourd’hui.
Ce que vous nous avez appris sera, sans doutes, indisposable pendant les deux prochaines annees. Par exemple, pour trois semaines, nous avons enseignes vos enfants, mais en realite, en enseignant nous avons appris comment devenir de meilleurs professeurs.
Tous les moments n’etaient pas faciles, mais vous nous avez aide a surmonter les moments difficiles comme nous etions malades ou comme nos familles nous manqeouns.
Je me souvendrai toujours de mes trois mois passé a Forecariah. Cette ville est benie d’une beaute naturelle exemple par ses montagnes ou sa riviere. J’espere que le Corps de la Paix continue a envoyer de future generation de volontaires pourqu’ils puissant beneficier de cette ville comme nous l’avons puis.
Maintenant que nous allons franchir un nouveau palier en quittant Forecariah nous nous sentions prêt, grace a vous, de commencer notre aventure en Guinee pour les deux prochaines annees. Merci encore pour tout que vous avez fait et nous esperons vous revoir dans le futur. Merci a touse.
Or, in English:
On behalf of all the trainees, I would like to thank you for your hospitality, your kindness, and your patience. When we arrived here in July, there were 25 trainees. Today, we leave with that same group of 25 trainees. This is, without doubt, thanks to your hospitality and your kindness.
During these three months, you have taught us how to live like Guineans. You helped us learn French; you cooked us Guinean food, like the rice and sauce; and you showed us how to dress like Guineans, for example, how we’re dressed today.
That which you taught us will be, without doubt, indispensible during the next two years. For example, for three weeks we taught your children, but in reality, in teaching we were learning to become better teachers.
All the moments were not easy, but you helped us to overcome those difficult times when we were sick or when we missed our families.
I will always remember my three months spent in Forecariah. This town is blessed with a natural beauty exemplified by its mountains and its river. I hope that the Peace Corps will continue to send future generations of volunteers here so they can benefit from this town the way we were able to.
Now that we are going to cross over to a new stage in leaving Forecariah, we will be ready, thanks to you, to begin our adventure in Guinea for the next two years. Thanks again for all that you did and we hope to see you again in the future! Thank you, everyone.
Surely you can imagine everyone standing up, clapping before I had even finished, the men giving each other high-fives, the women in tears of joy and sadness. Well, that’s how I like to remember it.. although that really wasn’t the case, because, due to the sound system and my inability to hold the microphone the perfect distance from my mouth, I don’t think anyone understood a word I said. Oh well – at least they didn’t boo!
And for all those people in Forecariah right now, sipping your cappuccinos as you browse my blog at the internet café on Main Street, or to my neighbors, the Toures, who are probably reading this via wifi on their laptop as they watch the Georgia Tech football team pummel Georgia on their wall-mounted flat screen – now you finally know what I was trying to say that day as I gave my speech at the closing ceremony!
That, of course, was just a joke. Everyone knows Guineans really don’t care much for American football.
With the speech and ceremony over, it was finally time to say goodbye to our families. Just how do you say goodbye to the people who raised you from a drooling toddler, through that awkward teenage phase, and into full-grown, Guinean adults? Honestly, I still don’t have the answer. I would have liked to have given them all hugs, but I’d read somewhere that Africans don’t give hugs at departures – that means you won’t be coming back.
Things were easy enough with Nga – she lagged behind and just sat on the ground in the shade; she had been fairly sick the last few days (although I later heard she had gone through the same symptoms with the three previous trainees). I walked over, took her hand, and thanked her many times in Susu. I finished with my favorite Susu phrase, “n bara sewa,” which means, “I’m happy,” smiled, and returned to the others.
My heart was at once broken and warmed when I walked back and saw Nba close to tears. It was obvious they didn’t know how to say goodbye, either. It’s so strange that, three months ago, I was experiencing some of the unhappiest moments of my life, most of which I attributed to this family, but there I was at the end of training, a changed person, at one of the happiest moments of my life, and it was all thanks to these same people. It’s safe to say I’ve developed an admiration and love for this family as though I really was one of their own, and I will never forget it.
Not knowing what to say and not wanting to prolong the farewell, I thanked them again, told them I would miss them but would return again someday, shook hands, and left. When I turned back around a few seconds later, they had already disappeared through the crowd of well-wishing families and other trainees. In a way, this farewell was almost harder on me than when I left my real family behind at Bluegrass Airport in July; I managed not to cry either time (hey, I’m a man. I save my crying for those first nights alone in a foreign country for two years, or when I’m curled up on the floor vomiting with malaria…), but this time around I couldn’t deny the fact that I may never see the Doumbwayas again.
No matter what happens, I know my mom, Tom, Erin, and Hilary will always be there; I know, God willing, that I’ll see them many, many more times over the years. The Doumbwayas, though – that’s a different matter. Peace Corps could get evacuated again or I could get sick and sent home, never to see them again. Another possibility is that one of them could get sick or hurt – Mama and Torres are still at ages where they are very vulnerable to diseases like malaria and pneumonia. Heck, two days before we left, a boy from the high school was struck by a car and killed in the market just up the street. I know this all sounds morbid, pessimistic, and maybe just a little scary, but now you also have a better idea of what it’s like to say goodbye to people you love in Africa.
(And as for our safety here, we’re always the first ones pulled off the street by a helpful petit when an approaching vehicle is still 100m distant)
To wrap up on the Doumbwayas, I’ll miss them while I’m here at site, but I know I haven’t heard the last of them, either. Nba called me three days in a row in Conakry, just to check up on me, to say hi, just like a parent should. :)
I often think back to the summer before my senior year of high school, probably one of the greatest summers ever. It started with a week of all-male mock legislation at the American Legion run Boys’ State. Okay, so it doesn’t sound great, but my friends and I had a blast getting under the skin of the super serious, I-want-to-win-the-scholarship-to-Boys’-Nation kids by trying to enact laws like the requirement to rotate your tires every day – boy, did that one grind some gears! Then, I got to spend a month at the Governor’s School for the Arts, where I played my viola all day with some great musicians and spent the rest of the time living, learning, and creating with other, like-minded artists – not a bad way to spend a month, no matter how old you are. One of my fondest memories of that summer, though, comes from the two week backpacking trip in the southern Rockies with my scout troop right after the arts school finished.
On this particular day we had a 12-mile hike, up and down several ridges, ending in what was affectionately known as “the seven switchbacks from Hell”. The campsite for the night was Apache Springs, and we soon found out that up by the springs we could set up an authentic Indian sweat lodge. After building a giant fire and heating up the rocks, we stripped down to our underwear and crawled through the tiny opening into the animal hide covered dome. Pouring water over the hot rocks to make it steam and feel even hotter, we timed ourselves to see how long we could last, how tough we all were. About twenty minutes later, the five of us burst out of the lodge, dumping buckets of ice cold spring water over our heads. It was, easily, the most refreshing moment of my life.
Arriving back in Conakry was kind of like that; except, instead of twenty minutes, we were in that sweat lodge for two months. Stepping through that door to the volunteer house was such a wonderful sensation, and I still can’t really put my finger on why.
My first explanation would be immediate access to air conditioning, television, and the internet, but that wasn’t it. I’m not a big TV junkie and I’ve got a bunch of shows and movies on my iPod anyways; air conditioning is nice, but after a few months you get used to the sweating and stickiness; and the internet – well, I don’t really get that many e-mails anymore and I only have enough good material to be able to post on this sucker every once a month or so, anyway.
No, that great feeling when I crossed the threshold was not a result of material products. I guess it must have has something to do with a freedom associated with the visit. The last time we visited the Peace Corps compound in Conakry was during our first few days in the country, when PCV’s and staff held our hands everywhere we went. Then, over the next eleven weeks in Forecariah, we always had classes to attend, classes to teach, and homework to do or grade. When we had spare time, we had to report our every move to our families. For the first time in almost three months, we were able to do what we wanted, when we wanted, without the stress of languages, passing the cross-culture exam, or simply fretting over what our families would feed us next.
For me, getting to spend time with the other G-16ers without those stresses was like getting to know them all over again, in a good way. Towards the end of our time in Forecariah, I was getting tired of always hanging out in the same places, for the same limited periods of time, always talking about the classes of that day or the next. For once, we were able to shed those restrictive shackles and just be ourselves. I got chances to really get to know some people I really hadn’t “met” during training, and the friendships I already had only became stronger.
On Thursday morning, we piled into the Peace Corps bus and made our way en ville to get some money from the bank and subsequently spend it all, gorging ourselves on “American” food. Peace Corps had already deposited our move-in allowance and the next three months’ living allowance, resulting in a whopping 4.3 million francs; we’d finally struck it rich! I withdrew three million, not sure of the next time I’d be in Conakry and wanting to make sure I had enough for the next few months. Since Guineans don’t have any bills larger than ten thousand francs, this resulted in quite a few bills, enough to need a backpack, but not so many that I wasn’t able to refute the lyrics of the great V.I.C./Soulja Boy song “Get Silly”, where they say “but forget a rubber band, cuz you can’t put a rubber band around a milli-ann!” Sorry Soulja Boy, but you CAN put a rubber band around a milli-ann!
With our money stowed safely away in our bags, a group of us made our way over to La Gondole, where I filled up on a large, fried egg (what the..?) pizza and a chocolate-banana milkshake. While it wasn’t a bad lunch, I’m not sure it was worth the 60 mille I had to fork over at the end. The cravings for American food, while they’re certainly still there, aren’t at the forefront of my mind anymore, which I suppose is actually quite a good thing, n’est-ce pas?
After leaving the restaurant, the plan was to go to the Leb store (run by Lebanese people) to pick up food and cooking supplies to take to site. The local authorities, however, had a different plan for us. When we got to the corner where we were going to turn towards the store, a police officer stepped in my path and saluted me. Confused, I half-saluted him and said “bonjour” as I tried to move around him. Staring me down with a look of incredulity, he stuck his arm out across my chest and demanded everyone’s documents. We obliged, passing over our Peace Corps ID cards and our cartes d’experts – our official Guinean documentation of our work here in the country. He claimed this wasn’t good enough, asking why we weren’t giving him our passports. We explained that our passports were held in the safe at the Peace Corps compound, resulting in him marching of down the street, taking our IDs with him and barking for us to follow.
I’m sure everybody has seen the movie or read the book where the unsuspecting foreigner falls prey to the crooked cop and winds up locked away in a dark prison cell for years, forgotten. Well, I wasn’t about to be that guy! I took about ten stops before I stopped, letting the police officer disappear into the crowd of people down the street; it would be much easier to get myself a new Peace Corps ID than get myself out of the back of some locked, windowless van… but just then our hero arrived in the form of Sam, the chief of the Peace Corps motor pool. We explained the problem and he immediately chased down the police officer, eventually returning with our IDs and an explanation. Apparently, security has been raised in Conakry such that all foreigners must now constantly prove they have not illegally entered the country. Why a bunch of Americans would try to sneak into Guinea, I don’t know.
The rest of the day passed uneventfully – olive oil, baking soda, and popcorn kernels were bought at the Leb store, then the afternoon was spent watching “Out of Africa” with Conor, Luke and Tiffany. The movie was alright, but I won’t be in a hurry to watch it again; it was quite slow-moving, and if I really want to re-watch a Robert Redford movie, it would probably be “The Sting.”
Friday – the day to which we’d all been looking forward for months, the day we could finally shed that nasty title of “trainee” and toast one another as “volunteers”! The swearing-in ceremony was held at the U.S. embassy, and oh! how good it felt to be back on U.S. soil, in a sense. The swearing-in ceremony was similar to the farewell ceremony in that four volunteers gave speeches, along with the some speeches by the Peace Corps administration. It differed in the fact that some more important Guinean officials spoke, the ambassador spoke, and, of course, at the end of THIS ceremony, we were all volunteers.
Understandably, we were all a bit disappointed when we’d been told there would be no food following the ceremony – it would be rude to eat in front of the fasting Guineans. So, you can imagine our delight when the last speech ended and we turned around to find tables of delicious finger foods and pastries. Not only were we on American soil, but we were eating bologna, mini-pizzas, cake, and drinking soda – can you get any more patriotic than that?
Dan, the Peace Corps country director, and his wife, Julia, had planned a pool party and barbeque for us at their house starting at four. Seeing as we had a few hours between our time at the embassy and the impending bash, we couldn’t think of a better way to get ready than with a few cold beverages, so a group of us headed down to the beach bar, my first visit since July. Showing up to the beach on a Friday (the Muslim holy day) during Ramadan was like landing on the moon – it was completely empty. Well, empty of people; there was still plenty of trash to go around! Needless to say, we had the bar to ourselves.
A few beverages later, the time was right to dive into the pool party. had one thing on my mind – swimming in that cool, clear water!
The food was ready a few hours later and we enjoyed some of the most delicious, and I must add, bone-free, hamburgers I’ve ever had, along with beans, potato salad and some fantastic dirty rice. To top it all off, we had fruit salad and brownies! for dessert. Throughout the barbeque, various embassy staff dropped in to eat and say hello, including the ambassador herself, who had arrived at her post in Guinea only a few days before.
Towards the end of the night, I made my way up to the roof, where I could watch the storm roll in from the Atlantic. A nice breeze blowing in across the ocean kept things cool the lighting closed the distance between us. I must have been up there for about two hours, just watching. Every now and then somebody else would pop up and we’d talk for a bit. All in all, it was a pretty cool end to a marvelous day.
Saturday was a day meant for shopping and preparing for site. A large group of volunteers hustled off in the morning to fight the crowds (and pickpockets) en ville at Medina. I didn’t want to deal with the hassle of being with such a large group, and I figured I could probably find most of what I needed at the nearby Towya market, so I stayed behind. A few hours later, Conor, Valentin, Tiffany, and I decided to splurge on one last meal, so we deplaced a taxi (meaning we were the only occupants) to Le Damier – one of the nicest restaurants in Conakry. When I say nicest, don’t go conjuring up images of the Mayflower Hotel or the 1796 restaurant in Georgetown. Instead, imagine a quaint, clean, little French café. While the waiter was appropriately snooty, the food was appropriately good. I ordered a croquet madame, a slice of chicken/tomato pizza, and a cappuccino. My bill came out to 78 mille, only about 40 mille shy of what we’ve all decided will be our next great Conakry adventure – Le Damier’s Saturday buffet! I could talk about it now, just based on what I saw, but I think I’ll wait until I’ve actually had the chance to enjoy it and can do it justice – perhaps I’ll treat myself to the buffet for Christmas?
Later in the day, I made my way down to Towya and picked up a few of the essentials – bed sheets, pots, dishes and utensils, and some screen to make screen doors for my hut. The hard thing about buying stuff in Guinea is that you always have to haggle over the prices and, being Americans, we have to haggle that much more. Due to this, no matter how much I pay in the end, I always walk away with the suspicion that I’ve been ripped off. That said, I was very pleased to later find out that I’d paid less for my goods than everyone else.
With the shopping finished, Ashley, Tiffany, Valentin, and I walked down to the beach bar to join Ben and Luke, who had spent the entire day at the beach in lieu of shopping. As the sun began to set, the sand-soccer games began to thin out and once again we had the beach mostly to ourselves. The two hours we spent there that evening were some of the happiest, most euphoric hours I’ve had in country. I was in great company, watching the sun set over the ocean with islands off in the distance, the day before we all set off on our great adventures. It was like fitting that last piece into the jigsaw puzzle – everything was finally in its right place, and the picture it made was beautiful. Oh, and having a few beers didn’t hurt, either.
That night, we feasted on a pig Ian had killed and roasted, along with coleslaw, deviled eggs, and a crème brule to die for. Caron had organized a rooftop carnival involving twister, flip cup, and beer pong. Tiffany and I exercised total domination in beer pong, clinching the championship title… okay, let’s be honest – the last game was taking so long we had to declare it a tie and move on… Added on to the victory list was G-16’s triumph over G-15 in a best two-out-of-three flip cup challenge. What were the prizes? Bear beer! (See the picture above)
The perfect weekend in Conakry came to an abrupt end Sunday morning when Ben, Alison and I hugged everybody goodbye, climbed into the Land Cruiser, and left. While I will see a few other volunteers in the next month or two, it will be at least Christmas before I see the rest of them, which is what made my farewell to Ben and Alison so bittersweet on Monday. As ready as I had been to set off on my own when we left Forecariah, the time spent in Conakry reminded me of the good friends I’d made and how much I would miss them over the next few months. Of course, all you friends back home reading this shouldn’t feel bad – it was much harder leaving you guys! But I think you already knew that :)
So, that brings me (quasi-)up-to-date. After the Peace Corps truck pulled away, I got to work settling in. One of my first moves was to commission screen doors from the carpenter, who’s ‘shop’ is only about 100 meters from my hut. It’s Friday as I write (this entry started on Monday – little by little, a bird builds its nest, right?), and the doors aren’t ready yet; I’m hoping they’ll be waiting for me when I get back from Faranah tomorrow evening.
When we first pulled up to my hut Monday, there must have been about 50 people waiting to greet me. At first, I was really stressed – how would I be able to get anything done with all those people around?? Within an hour of the truck leaving, though, everyone else had also left, the crowd having lost interest pretty quickly. It’s been wonderful having the last few days carefree and to myself. I’ll wake up around 7:30, roll out of bed, step into my backyard (which is now enclosed and private), where I’ll relax into my hammock. There, I’ll pick up my book of the moment (I’m on my third already), read for an hour or so, and doze back off. I’ll typically only sleep 20 or 30 minutes at a time in the hammock, but there have certainly been a few afternoons when I’ve put away a good hour or two…
At some point, around 9 or 10, I’ll pull myself out of the hammock and take off for a run or bike ride. I’ve not run terribly far yet – only six miles yesterday – I’ll have to get up a lot earlier for the distance runs, because by 9 am it’s already terrifically hot and humid, and there’s not beaucoup de shade on my road. I was curious as to how the locals would react to my running and was pleased with the result: although there were a few puzzled looks, there were plenty more smiles and cheers.
On Wednesday, I took off on my bike to Laya, a village about ten miles distant which I passed through on that 26 mile tour de force during site visit. When I passed through last time, a young man walked with me for a bit, explaining Laya had a tree where you could go for cell phone reception, so I thought I’d see if it was true. When I arrived, a petit named Haround, maybe around 14 or 15 years old, and three of his friends took me to the tree. I stood under the tree, staring at my phone, waiting for a signal, oh, and feeling just a little silly, too – the signal never came. When Harouna saw this, he said there was one other spot, pointing to the top of a large hill off in the distance. It seemed a long way, but I’d already come ten miles, and what else was I going to do? Go home and take another nap?
So we went. Halfway up the hill, he told me I’d have to leave my bike, and I could see way – from there on, the trail was barely visible through the jungle dense with trees and 8-foot tall grass. Although it wasn’t far, it wasn’t the easiest of hikes. The view from the top, signal or not, made the whole trip worthwhile. You could see the entire village of Laya laid out in the distance and then for miles past it. Unfortunately, I didn’t have my camera – but now that gives you a reason to tune back into my next post!
So, aside from reading, napping, exercising, and writing endlessly in my journal, what else am I doing? Becoming bien integre, of course! On Tuesday, I spent a few hours walking around with the principal of my school, Monsieur Camara. Our first stop was the market, which is only held on Tuesdays. Wanting some fruit, I was shocked to find out how expensive it was.. or, should I say.. inexpensive! I bought twelve grapefruit for 800 francs (about 16 cents), 11 oranges for 1200 frances (about 24 cents) and 10 bananas for 2000 francs (about 40 cents). In all, I bought more fruit than I could carry for less than a dollar. You can bet your bottom dollar that I used that last 20 cents to buy a bag!
Afterwards, we went about the village, greeting all the local big-men. The imam presented me with two mille to buy myself kola nuts as the customary welcome gift, as did the president of the quartier marche. It didn’t feel quite right just mixing that money with the rest of my money, so it’s sitting in an honorary spot at the corner of my desk/table/counter, kind of like how people frame the first dollar they make, until I figure out something better to do with it.
Each day at site, I make an effort to spend at least a few hours integrating into the community, which basically means a walk through town, in my Sunday best, to the café, where I’ll drink tea with the older men who can only speak a little French. Most of the people here speak a language called Yalonke, which it either the basis for Susu or is based off Susu, depending who you ask. Nevertheless, I am the only volunteer in a Yalonke village (I think there are only about 10,000 people who speak it in the world, and most of them are in my village), so I just studied Susu with the others. I can pick up words here and there, but it is a very subtle language and it will be quite a while before I am comfortable with it.
My only real setback in moving into my hut was the realization that two of my bags had not made it onto the truck in Conakry. It’s not a big deal, hopefully they will arrive when the mail-run comes. It is, however, a little inconvenient because those two bags were the bags with all the stuff I’d bought in Conakry for site – i.e. my sheets and my cooking gear. Like I said, it’s not a big deal – I have a sleeping bag until the sheets come, and my neighbors will cook for me until my cooking stuff arrives… or so I thought!
When I walked through town during my site visit about a month and a half ago, I must have received 20 invitations to eat with various people. Naturally, I figured the same thing would happen when I moved here.. only, that wasn’t the case. My first night I ended up eating some care package snacks for dinner. The second night, though, I did receive a delicious chicken dinner from my principal’s wife, as well as some rice for Wednesday’s lunch, but other than that, I’ve been on my own. Luckily, I have that care package food and the fruit I bought the other day, so I’ve actually been eating quite well. On this day, though, I spotted some bread for sale on my walk through town. I scooped up a loaf and went off in search of some peanut butter. A woman sold me a lump (that’s how they sell it here) and I was headed home to a delicious dinner! I figured I’d eat half the loaf tonight and the other half in the morning before the 50km bike ride into Faranah.
I fixed myself a nice little sandwich with peanut butter, honey I’d bought in Conakry, and even went a bit overboard by adding a few pieces of some fancy bittersweet chocolate my friend had been so kind as to send. Sandwich in hand, I sat in front of my hut, taking the first bite as I continued to write in my journal. Just as I was about to take the second bite, an old woman walked by on the path which crosses just 20 feet from my front door. She greeted me in Yalonke and I greeted back, and, in an attempt to be vrai Guinean, said “invitation?” Guineans love this and always say, “Merci, bon appétit!” and go on their way. Well! I’ll be damned if that old woman didn’t take me up on it! She took the sandwich and sat next to me. Expecting her to take a bite and hand it back to me, I was rather surprised when she stood up, said thanks, and walked off, my whole sandwich (and dinner), minus a bit, in tow!
Thank goodness for second halves, right? I just went right back into my hut and made up the sandwich I was going to have for breakfast, although this time I was sure to eat it behind the cover of a book whenever somebody walked by… I guess the moral of the story is that whenever you invitation someone on a sandwich, unless you want them to take the whole dang thing, break off how much you really want to share…
